Respite Program Brings Peace of Mind to Families Living with Dementia

When Denise Anthony’s mom, Barbara, experienced a stroke, it was life-changing for both of them. For Barbara, it was relearning to walk and communicate. Denise, on the other hand, made the tough decision to resign from her job and move back to Delaware to care for her parents. She was balancing full-time work and full-time caregiving. When she heard about a new respite program for people with dementia called “Together We Care” at Canaan Baptist Church in New Castle, she jumped at the opportunity to take a break from caregiving.

“We decided to participate in the respite program because I knew it would be beneficial for her and me as well,” Denise says. “The program keeps her active both physically and mentally. I know they’ve done their job when she walks in and is worn out.”

The program is tailored to offer relief to caregivers and a safe, nurturing environment for those affected by dementia, Alzheimer's, and Parkinson's. Developed through a partnership between Canaan Baptist Church, Easterseals Delaware & Maryland's Eastern Shore, and the Division of Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities, the Together We Care respite program is offered at the church from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on the second and fourth Tuesdays each month.

“The Together We Care program, a community-based respite care, provides a valuable asset to caregivers supporting their loved one on the difficult journey through dementia, memory loss, Parkinson's, or signs of aging that their patient or loved one may be experiencing,” Together We Care Respite Ministry Program Director Patricia Risher says. “Respite is a place where individuals can find fellowship and not be isolated.”

While her mom, who was later diagnosed with dementia, enjoys activities and interacting with volunteers, Denise can take a break to get a massage, walk the mall without being in a hurry, or work without distractions.

“For four hours, I can do whatever I want. I can take my time and just have the time to breathe. We all need that time,” Denise says. “Caregivers need to be cared for as well. We pour so much into our loved ones. Sometimes we forget about ourselves. Respite gives us a moment, gives us that relief. The respite program is very important.”

Participants in Together We Care engage in activities such as music, games, movement exercises, art, and mission projects, with assistance from community volunteers. This respite ministry is designed for participants who are independent, ambulatory, and able to attend to their own personal care needs.

June is Alzheimer's & Brain Awareness Month. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, worldwide, more than 55 million people are living with Alzheimer's or another dementia, and two-thirds of Americans have at least one major potential risk factor for dementia. To learn more about the Together We Care program, volunteering, or participating, contact Patricia Risher at pjrisher@verizon.net or by calling 317-518-9942.